On Fri, May 6, 2022, 5:58 PM zeynepaydogan <[1]zeynepaydogan@proton.me>
   wrote:

     you know what Karl I think you have some pent-up resentment towards
     your mom.Am ı right? That may be why you like people who treat you
     badly, try to make your therapist understand.

   reaching for care in the most difficult places is a rare skill, Zeynep.
   when we are used to being hurt, it may seem easy to expose ourselves to
   being treated badly, but it does not mean we deserve it in the
   slightest, and it saddens those who know and care for us.

References

   1. mailto:zeynepaydogan@proton.me