[most of the issues I find are from my own spasmodic mistakes, but:
   - there is often a big delay before identifying this, and the preceding
   information isn't always consistent
   and
   - my spasmodic mistakes are habits encouraged by the bad thing
   it's funny to imagine associating with a group who doesn't or might not
   like you, in a submissive way.
   I infer far more people are in that situation now, than in the past.]