"I'm so sorry if I've upset you!"
   "Nothing personal, just doing my job."
   While pondering what the job of a realtor is, friend walked by a few
   stores and thought they might pick something up to make peace with
   whoever murdered the person they knew and had their house burned down.
   They clearly focused on hugging a lot.
   Friend found a gift card with a picture of somebody keeping respectful
   distance.  The card said "All my support!" in large letters.  Friend
   bought a box of chocolates, wrote "no hugs needed!" on the card, with
   arrows showing how far apart the people were, and affixed the card to
   the box of chocolates.
   Feeling a little discouraged about buying a home, friend went back to
   the first person who had likely burned theirs, since they failed to
   find the second.  This person would certainly know whom to send the
   chocolates to.