Ultimately "seeking approval" is generally bound to be unproductive and cancelling to the goals of the approval seeker, as there is most always a point at which the would-be approver realizes their very existance is in jeopardy, from which they will thereafter always act to disapprove, violently. It's an odds game as usual, however analysis of history may show that your only hope is to indeed blitz efficiently, rapidly, subvertively, adoptively, privately, transformatively, without approval, far past the point at which disapproval is long since mooted. Whichever the way... Qapla'