i'll forward these to cpunks. I can miss a lot so it's a habit I have. On Sat, Mar 5, 2022, 3:23 PM Undiscussed Horrific Abuse, One Victim of Many wrote:

it looks like we accidentally replied privately. are you able to forward my email to larger group?

On Sat, Mar 5, 2022, 3:21 PM Undiscussed Horrific Abuse, One Victim of Many wrote:

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it sounds like you're struggling to ask for help with sexual abuse being forced into somewhere you have repeated exposure to. we have a different kind of abuse in my culture, where when people ask for this help in the ways that are reasonable for them, they are ignored and possibly even insulted.

it's hard for me to comprehend you, but I was able to write the above.

I also didn't realise that I was repeating this pattern, further disrespecting you.

I simply mean I honestly get incredibly confused.

A good next step here would be maybe finding a trustable advocate somewhere near Juan. A way to do that is by reaching into networks and trying to find people who know of things closer to Juan, to find groups that have more likelihood of being trustworthy.

It can take a lot of energy to do this, because of the strong finances for the problem.

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