while i'm 'pasting' coping notes, here's a positive one: [we added the quotes around 'pasting'. karl is hand-retyping, not pasting. gives more options [for protecting him?],due to behavior exchange.]

an idea is that oppressed people, businesses, homeless, anarchists, militaries, governments, care workers

are all trying to do the same human things, meeting the same human goal

but have different experiences and ways to do this.

a way to think of it is how when under great pressure, we change our approaches to handle the situation.

we dissociate from our nature.