In other news, aside from the Bible, A Course in Miracles in one of my favorite books. 

It talks about a lot of what you two could be going through. You both should read it to be better lovers: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1zy7i_iZfiiOIslRXSMIhi_eAwYtBo9zg/view?usp=drivesdk.

I am here always for you both. 

Love,

Gunnar