The current wiring has GND->COM1, NO1->MOTOR-, MOTOR+->12V.
To make it go backward, I would connect MOTOR+->GND and MOTOR-->12V .
I have 2 relays with 3 pins each. Each relay can reswitch one thing to one of two other things when switched.
The currently relay has ground, so I could make it wire ground to MOTOR+ when the other way.
Then the other relay would have 12V, and could wire it to either MOTOR+ or MOTOR- .
But, in that arrangement there would be no way to turn the motor off.
Maybe it makes more sense to undo the wires and move them by hand.
I'm thinking that I will need to do this again, though. But, it's easier to be physically near the motor when sending it in reverse.