[most of the issues I find are from my own spasmodic mistakes, but:- there is often a big delay before identifying this, and the preceding information isn't always consistent
and
- my spasmodic mistakes are habits encouraged by the bad thing
it's funny to imagine associating with a group who doesn't or might not like you, in a submissive way.
I infer far more people are in that situation now, than in the past.]