let's check a needs wheel! here are some needs: https://ytp.uoregon.edu/sites/ytp2.uoregon.edu/files/Needs%20Wheel%20in%20PD... i got into this stuff when i got really influenced to be aggressive and had amnesia and numbness around my past kindness thoughts. it's nice to have a system that supports not being mean. "order" is one of the needs. "tolerance", "kindness", "understanding". i can see a useful path might be focusing on how Priest experiences suffering when witnessing Coder being chained. getting Boss to reflect that experience back would be a step forward. the "mutuality" group looks helpful. "cooperation", "community", "nurturance", "care & giving", "inclusion", "belonging", also "wholeness"; "fairness", "accountability", "civility", "justice", "equality", "right-action", "courteousness", "politeness" ... there are more, one is "freedom" ... i'm used to the concept of "respect" -- it's not very respectful to do something known to be abhorrent, in a public area. it's a confusing concept to me!