torturer: “i can’t believe boss lied to me and i did horrible things to everyone i loved” family member victim [grasping for ideas]: “i’m hearing that you’re going through something incredibly intense, and i want to focus on you saying that you love me and don’t want to hurt me. i think this is such a wonderful thing.” torturer looks at family member victim torturer: “i love you and i never wanted to hurt you and it’s so hard to st—“ family member victim: “you love me, and you don’t want to hurt me [and i love you too]” torturer [crying]: “i don’t want to hurt you. i love you and i don’t want to hurt you.” torturer [crying]: “boss lied. boss lied.” torturer is looking between family member victim and other focus like window. torturer [crying]: “i love you and i don’t want to hurt you. and i’m so confused !!!!” torturer looks like creatures might burst out of his skin (emotionally) torturer: “you have no idea what he did to us!!” torturer almost goes to slam head into wall then puts it in his hands and cries more torturer: “you have no idea what he did to us” family member holds torturer