jackel@melbpc.org.au (jackel@melbpc.org.au) wrote:
In fact, this is common enough that there are several "Married Lesbian" discussion boards, IRC chat channels, and private mailing lists where women involved in this deception swap notes, and plan their strategy.
I too have noted this scenario, of women leaving their husbands, getting the money and children, then coming out. I have seen parts of an English (UK) book for lesbians advocating precisely that.
Re the net forums, if you have further information/locations, etc. would you please send it to me at the above email address or via the alt.mens-rights newsgroup - even if they are just pointers in the right direction.
Thank you very much.
One of them is the "Married But Lesbian" (MarBLes) mailing list moderated by Anna Holmes <fogbow@sprynet.com> and hosted on the queernet.org server. This one is so ultra-paranoid that potential subscribers are required to submit biographic information to the moderator and undergo a screening "interview" of some sort prior to being admitted to the list. You can read more info on this lesbian networking tool at this URL at lesbian.org: http://www.lesbian.org/lesbian-lists/marbles.html The idea of using men as "a sperm bank with a checkbook" is really insidious, but by the time many of the victims of this deception find out they've been deceived and used, it's too late. The above URL, BTW, says that the list has a panel of six formerly married lesbians for "support", which seems to be a euphemism for coaching. Since marriage is a civil contract I wonder if such willful "interference with the performance of a contract" has ever been redressed in court.