Mr. Blank Frank,
I simply asked for your assistance -- none of your repulsive filth was due me. It's people like you -- or the perception that you tried to give me of you that I am trying to protect my son against. When deception, filth, dishonesty, and the such as you have displayed rule this world ... when talking isn't the answer, a parent has the responsibilty to care for
While I almost always refrain from posting in petty flame wars, this is something I feel pretty strongly about, so... First, I agree that Frank's response was most likely NOT the most professional or courteous response to your question. However, you argue that talking is not the answer here, and I most vehemently disagree. I was raised with good moral standing, and I do think I know right from wrong. However I did not learn these things by being completely isolated from the things in the world which are damaging. Deception, filth, and dishonesty come from silence. Open communication, by simple definition of the term, serves to counteract these things. Perhaps the answer isn't total isolation or silence, but to simply communicate your message differently. I also believe that a parent's *number one* responsiblity in caring for their child is to protect them. However, what will happen when that child (no longer a child) enters the real world, where these things are NOT isolated from him anymore? Innocence only lasts as long as ignorance. What *will* make your son determine right from wrong is the knowledge you provide now, today and tomorrow, about these things. I'm not flaming you or telling you how to raise your son, anymore than I would want someone telling me how to raise mine. (FWIW I am not a parent) But I cannot agree that this is the right approach. I can see religion is a strong force in your life. I don't share similar beliefs personally, but I will fight to the death to protect someone's right to believe what they choose. My suggestion is to perhaps teach your message in this framework, the keyword being /teach/. communicate. Share what you know, what you learned from experience in your life, with your son. ONLY with that kind of open teaching and leadership will your son have the ability to make those moral decisions on his own. Oh -- the general feeling you received from the list regarding hacking your son's .pwl files come from most of us thinking it's wrong to do that. We all were taught, and learned, because someone took the time to share with us what they knew. No one is suggesting you let your son run rampant through porn sites and the like, just that we've been there and know from personal experience that approach will accomplish nothing. Anyway, some food for thought... - Ralph Forsythe ralph@centerone.com On Tue, 23 Jan 2001, Lori Banks wrote: their child. Perhaps you are not a parent, or you never had a parent that cared enough to protect -- but, I am one that will fight to the bitter end to protect the innocence of my children. I simply asked for you assistance in cracking the .pwl file and your response was nothing to do with that request. If you are unable to help me, no response would have been better than the one you sent. I'm sorry that misery seems to emmanate from you -- there's a Peace that can be found in Your Creator ... may He bless you today.
Sincerely, Mrs. Banks
"Lori Banks" <Lori@bornagn.com> writes:
I am a concerned parent that has stumbled upon information that is not good >regarding my teen and the Internet. Could you help me find out what these >passwords are or how to work that program?
We have checked our records, and he is in fact running a homo-necro-bestial paedophile ring when he's not smuggling heroin for Osama. He does not seem to be money-laundering, he gets paid in Semtex, so chill out, bitch. Besides, snooping is so *rude*, why don't you just talk to him?